We haven't moved. We really need to, and with the exception of my sister who doesn't want to leave her friends, we want to leave. It's very tense, lots of 'walking on eggshells'. He hasn't said anything else, but he also hasn't gotten sloshed again, and that's when it happened. I'm sorry to hear your sister's sick, but, if having a good attitude and being able to find the humor in it helps the way some think it does, I think she'll be well really soon.

(Sorry if I'm not making sense it's 1 am and I'm kinda zonked.)